People are different and when they start living in close contact such as in a joint family, the differences tend to become prominent.
At the Feet of The Mother
Essays on Yoga
... one has to learn to strive rightly and patiently. To learn to wait is to put Time on our side. To be restless and impatient is to delay things further. Even an intense prayer should be full of trust and patience
TEXT IN ENGLISH
The first thing is to make the Divine discovery our goal, not as one of the many goals but the most important thing that we need to discover.
The psychic grows through its contact and experiences of the world. With its growth there emerge the capacities and possibilities embedded in it as a seed.
The development of the psychic being passes through a number of stages. The first stage is when it is fully submerged in nature and has forgotten itself completely.
One can practice psychological methods of widening by contemplating the boundlessness of Space, the endlessness of Time. Even a few moments of such contemplation is enough to liberate oneself from the clutch of the moment.
A true remedy is the growth of faith. Faith naturally grows as we go nearer to our soul. But the simplest is to call the Mother's Name.
Earning money is needed but it should happen naturally as a result of the work one does.
AN ESSAY IN ENGLISH
The main work is within and it is this inner work in each one that provides the needed fulcrum for the larger collective work.