Sri Aurobindo

Letters of Sri Aurobindo

08. Human Relationships in Yoga

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The movement of which you speak is not psychic but emotive. It is a vital emotive force that you put out and waste. It is also harmful because, while on the one side you try to reject a past vital relation or tie with these people, you by this movement re-establish in another way a vital relation with them. If there was anything wrong in your first movement, this is quite a false way of remedying the defect.

Certainly, it would be better to reject without any violent feeling against any person, because the violence is a sign of a certain weakness in the vital which must be corrected – not for any other reason. The rejection should be quiet, firm, self-assured, decisive; it will then become radical and effective.