There are always two options before us, – either to change the outer surroundings or to change ourselves within. The second one is surely superior but may not always be possible given the balance between the individual’s innate strength and the sum total of resistances one meets outside. However it has been generally found that changing surroundings does not help unless one has detected the inner resistance which is projected outside as the difficulties and problems one faces in life. And when with discernment we have changed these elements within us we may not need an outer change.